Pick Up Artist Tips: Smile her pants off!
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OK, a pick up artist’s main objective is pretty carnal, let’s be honest. So how do you position yourself in a way to maximise that opportunity. Answer: The power of your smile.
Smiling is a known method for primates to allow other primates they mean no harm. Here’s the bad news; you’re a primate! Any pick up artist knows that in order to pick up a beautiful woman, you need her defences down, not up. By giving a smile, you are immediately letting her know you mean no harm.
Another great advantage of smiling is that people cannot really help but smile back if someone smiles at them. So if you smile at your prospect she is more than likely to smile back. This will immediately give her a subconsious trigger to like you. Smart huh?
Now, when you have sorted yourself out and gone to have a chat with her, smiling regularly send lots of other signals to her. It tells her you are relaxed. If you have good teeth, it shows them off to her and this is no bad thing. Smiling a lot also brings levity, even when you are feeling down so wherever her levels of happiness are, your smile will raise them further and leave an enduring memory that you made her happier.
Other advantages to using your smile are that they indicate you like her which makes her feel better about herself. It is a silent compliment. It also indicates you like what she is saying and that you are a fun and positive guy. It also demonstrates that you are relaxed and that you are confident as well has having a good sense of humour.
Smiling is pretty much the single most powerful tool you have in your armoury and like any powerful weapon, it must be used with care!
Never, never, ever enter a room with a smile on you face. Never ever, ever ever, enter a room laughing. Your smile and your laugh are such powerful weapons, they must be deployed carefully and with purpose. Enter a room with a straight face and smile when you look at her and she knows that she was the one that caused your change. Enter a room grinning like an idiot and you will have to pull a different face to let her know you’ve seen her. Since smiling and laughter are the best weapons you have, anything else would be a downgrade and would send exactly the wrong message.
Take note!
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