Pick Up Artist Tips: Applying Cat Theory
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Using the concept of cat theory to raise your game will bring astonishing results. So in this part of the article, I will answer the questions of how to become an attraction to the women and secondly, how to keep yourself aloof enough to maintain interest.
The first part of being attractive (wriggling the feather) is to be an alpha male. What do I mean by this? Well, women are surrounded by jerks and beta males all the time. Jerks get lucky because they are exciting to be around for women, beta males get the scraps off the table when it comes to the ladies. Being alpha is the key to holding the gaze and interest of beautiful women.
So what qualities mark out alpha males? There are many and they are too numerous for exhaustive explanation here but let me give you some examples of what marks out alpha males from the rest. They are fun and fun loving. They are great to be around because they bring an aura ofhappiness and positivity with them. They are confident and determined – they do not doubt themselves. They are well turned out and demonstrate wealth andintelligence . They are fair and humble and do not brag about their status – they don’t need to. They display strong alpha male body language, taking up space and ensuring you know they are there. If you want to know more about being an alpha male, just read John Alexander’s excellent book, Become an Alpha Male, you can read my review by clicking here.
So if you can be the alpha male, you will immediately make yourself an attraction – you will become the feather. Now to being aloof but enticing.
Once you have found your mark, and made your approach you need to get her clawing for you. If you have problems with approaching, I strongly recommend the Art of Approaching as a great place to start developing your skills.
A fatal flaw most would be pick up artists make is to start doling out compliments. WRONG! You will destroy her interest in you because you have effectively given yourself up to her by declaring your thoughts. Keep any compliments till after you have taken her home for the night 
Beautiful women have beta males laying themselves down at her feet like doormats all day long. If you are alpha, you do not do that, you stand your ground and make her prove herself to you. Sure she might be beautiful but you need her to be more than that. (Beauty works for beta males because they don’t value themselves and are prepared to do anything for a shag with a half good looking girl – alpha males require more than good looks.)
Make sure you use your body language to feign disinterest. Make sure you constantly remind her that you are about to leave and that your time is precious. Be prepared to give her gentle ‘negs’; telling her a negative ‘tongue-in-cheek’ compliment such as “I met a girl in the coffee shop with that skirt on, it is very nice – seems you have good taste too” for example.
That serves as a ‘neg’ and as a ‘pre-selected qualifyer‘ – you have told her that you met a girl in the coffee shop which implies other women like to be with you so you have been ‘pre-selected’ and this qualifies you as suitable alpha male material for her. If you want to know more about pre-selection and qualifiers, I cannot recommend Magic Bullets highly enough – it explains in great detail how you can re-invent yourself as a supreme pick up artist. (Read my short review by clicking here.)
If you are making her laugh and displaying strong alpha male qualities she will literally start grabbing you to get you to stay if you threaten to leave. Instead of you trying to attract her, she will be trying to attract you and that is the perfect situation to be in if you want to pick up women on a regular basis.
Now if I may be so cheeky; Be the feather on the string and a little pussy will surely be coming your way.
Recommended Reading:
Become an Alpha Male
The Art of Approaching
Magic Bullets
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