Pick Up Artist Tips: 7 Ways To Be a Better You
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Continuing on from the first part of this article found on ezinearticles.com, here are some more important characteristics you should develop in order to enhance your viability and prestige with women.
Be Pre-selected: Magic Bullets places a great deal of importance on ensuring women see you in a ‘pre-selected’ state. What matters here is that women are a little sheep-like. If you can demonstrate (or imply) that you have been with hot girls before, this will convey pre-selection. I.e. Other hot women have found you to be of high enough value, therefore you are a valid object of affection. It is an emotional impression and it need not be the truth but by conveying that you HAVE been pre-selected, you close a door of rejection. Life is about impressions: come across as hot property and you are hot property (even if you aren’t!).
Be an Alpha Male: Being an alpha male is a term used to identify the characteristics of incredibly attractive men. Alphas are in charge without being aggressive. They are respected without threatening force. They are admired for who that are. The alpha male has confidence, charisma, power, influence and is a leader. He is also commonly found surrounded by women. John Alexander’s book, Become an Alpha Male is a great example of how any “Average Joe” can go from zero to hero with the ladies and one that I heartily recommend.
Be Socially-Aware: Women meet and get hit on by social dwarfs all day long. C’mon dude, let’s face it most guys are complete dorks when is comes to social skills. By taking an interest in becoming a pick up artist, you are at least demonstrating that you are willing to improve your social skills. Well done you! 3 points!
Women NOTICE men who are socially aware and cannot help themselves becoming attracted to them and gravitating towards them. Learn to be better at reading social situations and you will find women surrounding you all the time too. (Just remember to be fun though!)
Be Fair, Be Humble: As part of being an alpha male, you must demonstrate fairness in you judgements. Alpha males are not cruel, they are “alpha”. If you develop your character in the ways outline, you will find more and more women in your life anyway, but they will go if you turn out to be an egotistical sociopath with a taste for cruelty. Be humble with your status – understated if you will. Women will find you overwhelmingly attractive if you can convey these characteristics.
Understand Women: You must realise that women are emotional creatures. The whole game of being a pick up artist relies on you getting this point. Women rationalise their decisions AFTER they have made them. They make their decisions based on their emotional state at the time the decision was made. If you watch girls having fun together you will see how childish they are, riding their emotions. Once you get this and she knows you get it (without being manipulative!), she will find you irresistible. Remember, 95% of guys just do not grasp the idea that women are emotional creatures, so get this bit right and you have a head start to die for!
Have Standards: A women will find you attractive if you are a challenge. Most guys will roll over like a puppy and do anything for a hot girl. Well, you can forget that kind of behaviour right from the get-go. Roll over and you are a floor mat in her eyes. You must not take any crap from her and you must let her know it. By doing this you raise your value compared to virtually all the guys she meets.
She will test you to see what you will do for her. Make sure you challenge her and don’t agree with everything she says (unless you can do it emotionally and get her going). Once a woman knows you have standards that exceed her looks, she will start to work for you and there is, my friend, no better feeling than having a girl work her tail off to impress you!
Finally, here is the one thing you must never do with a women. Do this and you are going home alone my friend:
Don’t be Needy: Women can be turned on with the careful use of many of the characteristics I have outlined here. Be needy and you may as well forget about all of it. Women find neediness about as attractive as venereal disease. So unless you want to come across as a dose of the clap, never come across as needy. If you do, your value will drop like Wall Street in a credit crunch – unlike her panties!
Work on your character and use these anchors as references and before you know it, women you meet will want to stay around you. And you know where that will end. : )
Recommended Reading:
Magic Bullets
Become an Alpha Male
Make Women Laugh
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