Pick Up Artist Tips: Casual Erotic Contact to Get Things Moving!
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Women love excitement. they love to ride their emotions. They are after all, emotional animals, hence the saying, men are from Mars, women are from Venus. So here are a few tips to capitalize on a womans love of emotional stimulation to get things going for you in an intimate way.
This is slightly advanced stuff so I am assuming you have managed to overcome your approach anxiety and are getting pretty darn good at expressing your alpha male qualities. If you haven’t, you could do far worse than getting a hold of a copy of John Alexander’s Becoming an Alpha Male or reviewing Joseph Mathews’ excellent Art of Approaching course.
So here’s how you get a nice little boob rub in. It is simple and easy if you are having a good time and taking advantage of the emotional peaks in your conversation. Having fun is key to getting acceptance with this approach.
Let’s say you are in a club and you want to move your prospect to another area. You go to grab her hand and pull her in close to you, demonstrating your strong alpha male characteristics. She loves this kind of behavior and providing you are playing the game correctly, you will gain full acceptance from her. As you lead her, you can use the back of your arm to gently rub across the front of her breast.
It goes without saying that if she is attracted to you and you are not clumsey and blatant with this, she will let you do it.
Her breast are erogenous and she will be excited that she is being aroused in public. This will only raise her emotional state.
If you want to really up the ante you can with your next move.
The next time you are moving from one location in the club to another or from one venue to another, you can repeat the process but this time, if her hand is by her hip you can ‘accidentally miss’ the hand and make contact in a more intimate manner. But pull away immediately!
This must be done in a casual way and accidentally without you making anything of it. If she wants to pull you up on it then either you have been a little clumsy in your execution or you have misjudged the mood or she will make light of it in which case, geronimo! Good luck out there!
Recommended Reading:
The Art of Approaching
Becoming an Alpha Male
Magic Bullets
Pick Up Artist Tips: Practical Measures for Annihilating Approach Anxiety
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Along with the mental measures you need to take, you also need practical measures to annihilate your approach anxiety.
Being able to walk up to, open and talk comfortably with women you haven’t met requires confidence and comfort on your part. In order to build your confidence, there is a very simple trick you can use; compliment people. Genuinely – not in a contrived or difficult way though! Genuinely compliment people (of all ages and sexes (although concentrate on women)). Practice compliments in the mirror and get them to sound natural so they can roll off your tongue. Once you’ve nailed it, get out there and deliver some compliments!
You will be amazed that complimenting people can make you feel better. The thing is, it is rewarding to cheer other people up. Most of the time we don’t give it a thought. Unfortunately, we don’t even compliment the people we love so starting it on strangers may be a bit more difficult. But it needn’t be – they don’t know you so who cares what they think of you walking up to them and giving them a compliment. (Did you see how I reminded you about that – you don’t need to worry about what other people think!)
You see, the thing about being a better man with women is that you must be relaxed around them. It tells them that you are a “high value” man. It tells them that you are an alpha male and alpha males are successful not only in life but especially with women. John Alexander’s book, Becoming an Alpha Male is an excellent place to learn these traits that will build towards your success. I strongly recommend you read this book.
On top of making an issue of complimenting people, make sure you’re not being a shut in. Get yourself out there every day to make it possible to meet the public. If you live in a city this is simple, but if not, you must make an effort to get to a place where you can approach people on a DAILY basis. The purpose of this is simply to approach people – especially women.
You must commit to doing this every day. You cannot scrimp or avoid this. Make a commitment to yourself to go out and approach at least one woman every day with a view to starting a conversation. Don’t make any excuses like ‘I don’t feel sociable today’ or ‘I don’t feel confident today’ or ‘I’ll do two approaches tomorrow’ You must commit to go out of your way and make at least one approach per day.
To make it easier on yourself, try building the physical routine you will use so you end up in the same places every day or walking the same circuit everyday. This will make you more comfortable as you will be familiar with your surroundings. The more familiar you are the more comfortable you will feel. The more comfortable you feel, the more confident you will become which are qualities of alpha males!
What do you open with? Good question. I said in the first part of this article on ezinearticles that you should avoid trying to be witty or using some corny chat up line. I explained that this just lumbers more mental pressure on you because you have to deliver a great line when you are already nervous.
You need to be plain and friendly. I already mentioned compliments and I stand by it. You can start with a compliment and then move on to a canned routine. If you want to know about canned routines, I strongly recommend Magic Bullets as a great place to start. You could easily move on to explain why you give people compliments (because it gives you a ‘high’ or ego boost) and then take it from there. The point is, be plain and simple. If you start out with something funny it also makes you seem a bit desperate to impress which lowers you value in her eyes.
Once you start approaching women and having little conversations with them, you should draw on the experience and use it to build you confidence. You did it yesterday, you can do it today. It become routine and normal and that only adds to your levels of comfort. Once you have built your confidence and comfort, you will find women notice it about you and you can move onto finding out more about becoming a better pick up artist.
Recommended Reading:
The Art of Approaching
Becoming an Alpha Male
Magic Bullets
Pick Up Artist Tips: Applying Cat Theory
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Using the concept of cat theory to raise your game will bring astonishing results. So in this part of the article, I will answer the questions of how to become an attraction to the women and secondly, how to keep yourself aloof enough to maintain interest.
The first part of being attractive (wriggling the feather) is to be an alpha male. What do I mean by this? Well, women are surrounded by jerks and beta males all the time. Jerks get lucky because they are exciting to be around for women, beta males get the scraps off the table when it comes to the ladies. Being alpha is the key to holding the gaze and interest of beautiful women.
So what qualities mark out alpha males? There are many and they are too numerous for exhaustive explanation here but let me give you some examples of what marks out alpha males from the rest. They are fun and fun loving. They are great to be around because they bring an aura ofhappiness and positivity with them. They are confident and determined – they do not doubt themselves. They are well turned out and demonstrate wealth andintelligence . They are fair and humble and do not brag about their status – they don’t need to. They display strong alpha male body language, taking up space and ensuring you know they are there. If you want to know more about being an alpha male, just read John Alexander’s excellent book, Become an Alpha Male, you can read my review by clicking here.
So if you can be the alpha male, you will immediately make yourself an attraction – you will become the feather. Now to being aloof but enticing.
Once you have found your mark, and made your approach you need to get her clawing for you. If you have problems with approaching, I strongly recommend the Art of Approaching as a great place to start developing your skills.
A fatal flaw most would be pick up artists make is to start doling out compliments. WRONG! You will destroy her interest in you because you have effectively given yourself up to her by declaring your thoughts. Keep any compliments till after you have taken her home for the night 
Beautiful women have beta males laying themselves down at her feet like doormats all day long. If you are alpha, you do not do that, you stand your ground and make her prove herself to you. Sure she might be beautiful but you need her to be more than that. (Beauty works for beta males because they don’t value themselves and are prepared to do anything for a shag with a half good looking girl – alpha males require more than good looks.)
Make sure you use your body language to feign disinterest. Make sure you constantly remind her that you are about to leave and that your time is precious. Be prepared to give her gentle ‘negs’; telling her a negative ‘tongue-in-cheek’ compliment such as “I met a girl in the coffee shop with that skirt on, it is very nice – seems you have good taste too” for example.
That serves as a ‘neg’ and as a ‘pre-selected qualifyer‘ – you have told her that you met a girl in the coffee shop which implies other women like to be with you so you have been ‘pre-selected’ and this qualifies you as suitable alpha male material for her. If you want to know more about pre-selection and qualifiers, I cannot recommend Magic Bullets highly enough – it explains in great detail how you can re-invent yourself as a supreme pick up artist. (Read my short review by clicking here.)
If you are making her laugh and displaying strong alpha male qualities she will literally start grabbing you to get you to stay if you threaten to leave. Instead of you trying to attract her, she will be trying to attract you and that is the perfect situation to be in if you want to pick up women on a regular basis.
Now if I may be so cheeky; Be the feather on the string and a little pussy will surely be coming your way.
Recommended Reading:
Become an Alpha Male
The Art of Approaching
Magic Bullets